Family

Family

Well I started to write blogs keeping in mind my competitive exams, building contents for every economy related topic. However, I ended up orating completely opposite of it, flaunting some affairs of my day to day life. And I must say when I was little low, lonely in whole world, when tumultuous voices made me sleepless I found this as a bright light coming from the small peep illuminating the darkest hour of my day. Was it good? Fortuitously, it was wonderful, satisfying and enthralling. Now I can feel the alacrity of expressing anything and everything. And axiomatically, there are not much readers of my blog so I have the liberty to vehemently express myself. I feel like a sea shore, whenever something unsettling happens, churlish water wave’s start banging and bumping into the rock. Otherwise, a sweet, sound air blossoms the whole world. How astonishing and factitious but innocuous it is.

I am dazzled by the question that why we live? “Mind it; it is not why we have to live?” What for? I can empathize that everyone has not his/her aim, goals which can direct them, dictate the terms of the brutal life. Why makes the person so merriment on the birth of his first child? What makes him smile when he/she takes his/her first steps? An accomplished mind will think something like this; “Expenses go up, responsibility bar is higher, more commitment”. But No-one ever thinks like this. What does that ridiculing child gives the two poor souls. Why is he/she an angel to them? What is it that makes the father to work overtime? Mother – Well god can’t be everywhere and therefore he made mother. An axiom, that stands his ground till date. Bearing and tolerating all the pain of the world, the lady which would not allow a single bruise on the body or the soul of her child is known as MOTHER.

No prize for guesses! The answer is definitely Family. A family for which a person earns, spends, cries celebrate and most importantly lives. How astounding the fact is, that in a family a problem is never a “yours” but always “ours”. No “I” just “us”. This may sound to be meaningless and they may be. But, how satiable it is, to have a family, complete and full of love! There is no question that family, for everyone irrespective of the fact whether a person has it or not, is priceless, a top most priority in his life or at least it should be the top most priority. Well Well !!! it leads to another bamboozling topic of priorities.

Ah! How can I forget about other branches of the tree named family? Brother, sisters and other relatives also a play pivotal role in the family. No everything is to be discussed with parents as it is not meant to be. There is an unseen barrier which is better left untouched. Some pampers which are most suited to uncles and aunts. Some weeks especially marked for certain family members. Friends, companions also becomes the part of the family may be at a later stage. Hence I guess it is safe to say that families are always an evolving with generations moving ahead leaving the old brittle mud’s behind and achieving the old colorful one’s.

However, to judge that is evolving is correct is too much to answer. I believe that there are certain things which can prove to be the need of an hour. Lately, there is a culture of nuclear families. People are becoming more independent and demands for their personal space. Standard of living has increased considerably which encourages these incendiary thoughts to prevail. Necessity is the mother of an invention. Is necessity is mother of adjustment as well? A million dollar question to which I am speechless. I also believe that there is no point of living together when your inner conscience doesn’t allow you do. But to segregate and vouch for that inner sense needs a lot of maturity and pragmatism.

There are tons of questions which are left unanswered every time whenever a person introspects. These answers are not very distant but difficult. They prove to be herculean because they conflicts with our ego also seldom called as self respect and our selfish desires. The most important of foundation of any relation is honesty and trust. With these two pillars you can construct skyscrapers of co-operation and success.

Last but not least, I strongly affirm that no tree can brag, exaggerate or happy about its branches falling apart. No person can live happily without their family being together. Can they?