Today, I got a chance to interact a bunch of people running around the bangalore belonging to different kinds of industries. Most of them talked about their precious initial industrial years after they broke out of their respective college cages. Well, This was not the first time I was in such a gathering. But, The theme was quite different this time. All persons are allowed only to share their worst of all situations they had in last few years of their corporate life. As everyone was unknown to the other one in the hall, So each of them started opening up him/herself easily and triggered off his/her worst of all incidents without any care...
First category of personals I met today were the persons who felt asleep very long time ago and still continuing the same in every aspect of their lives! but the point is that they were seemed Happy and satisfied but cant inject any kind of motivation. I mean they were the most chilled out persons I figured out.They don't have intention to care where they are heading. All they want is to live in present,enjoy it the most, spent some of the salary they acquire every month and save/invest the rest of it & keep walking along their peers.
Second kind of people there I could differentiate, were the persons who got awaken in their lives few time ago after a happening of some kind of heart moving incident or toxic relationships or financial crisis or a failure in an entrance exam or an immediate family responsibility etc.. And they are still being awake and moving or rather running like hell in their lives to beat the time ahead!! They don't care much about the materialistic enjoyment but their every next short time success ladder celebration is the only time they enjoy in their lives. Rest of the time,they are only left seen working hard fourteen hours a day to get just that extra mile of success,travelling around to solve several purposes of their respective organization they were working for, trapped in ruined personal relationships or so... But, Here the plus point is.. these people were seemed motivated, spreading energy around all the time but actually not Happy and Satisfied with their lives!!
Now, the real myth began when I met the third style of personals behaving quite differently from above two described genres. Well actually.. the above two categories I realized.. were the two most common kind of personals which people think.. exist in this world.. but let me make you think otherwise! Because.. Here was the twist as the third trend which I found is relatively far more commonly found situation occurring with most of the people there than the two mentioned above was..
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First category of personals I met today were the persons who felt asleep very long time ago and still continuing the same in every aspect of their lives! but the point is that they were seemed Happy and satisfied but cant inject any kind of motivation. I mean they were the most chilled out persons I figured out.They don't have intention to care where they are heading. All they want is to live in present,enjoy it the most, spent some of the salary they acquire every month and save/invest the rest of it & keep walking along their peers.
Second kind of people there I could differentiate, were the persons who got awaken in their lives few time ago after a happening of some kind of heart moving incident or toxic relationships or financial crisis or a failure in an entrance exam or an immediate family responsibility etc.. And they are still being awake and moving or rather running like hell in their lives to beat the time ahead!! They don't care much about the materialistic enjoyment but their every next short time success ladder celebration is the only time they enjoy in their lives. Rest of the time,they are only left seen working hard fourteen hours a day to get just that extra mile of success,travelling around to solve several purposes of their respective organization they were working for, trapped in ruined personal relationships or so... But, Here the plus point is.. these people were seemed motivated, spreading energy around all the time but actually not Happy and Satisfied with their lives!!
Now, the real myth began when I met the third style of personals behaving quite differently from above two described genres. Well actually.. the above two categories I realized.. were the two most common kind of personals which people think.. exist in this world.. but let me make you think otherwise! Because.. Here was the twist as the third trend which I found is relatively far more commonly found situation occurring with most of the people there than the two mentioned above was..
The scenario of those persons who know where they want to go in their lives, have a clear picture of their goals(landing mark!), luckily carry tremendous variety of support of resources(financially,intellectually etc..), feel a sense of responsibility in themselves too, interestingly got a visionary road map as well!, :) Overall..
Those were the persons who got their eyes wide open, wanting to respond to every scenario affecting them individually or collectively.., and are not actually sleeping in their lives, BUT .. They are just not leaving the bed !!!
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which category do u come under?? and didn't understand the 3rd one u described .... u said these people know what they want and have a clear picture of their destination but they are not leaving their bed or making any effort to achieve what they want ... so what's the use of having that clarity ?? for me they are the one who are lost and they just have that picture to show others that yes i know what i am doing but actually they are confused abt what actually they desire or expect from life ...
ReplyDeleteyess babyy u are right!! they are really moving fast to lie in the so called Lost Ones category but i actually was not wanting to use that word .. Practically all i can say is that most of the times, one stays in this state of mind but in between tries to keep switching over above two mentioned scenarios.. B-).. even i didn't did that much Phd over it !! heh :) just wrote just like that as the title depicts.. :P
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ReplyDeleteThe scenario of those persons who know where they want to go in their lives,
....this is nothing new, you already mentioned this in category two. Everybody goes through something or other to find what he wants to do in his life; so I guess this is more or less the point two!.....
have a clear picture of their goals(landing mark!), luckily carry tremendous variety of support of resources(financially,intellectually etc..),
---I guess you are talking about ppl, who are from well to do families; for example an engineer's son trying to be an engineer.----
feel a sense of responsibility in themselves too, interestingly got a visionary road map as well!, :) Overall..
---now here is where the confusion begins. If somebody knows what to do, has proper coaching and resources and is also responsible or motivated, then why will he be on his bed. I couldn't figure out this type---
U know abhilash; the travesty is that many belongs to 3rd category and unaware of it :(
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